Karl, you are mistaking, I have never cooked any dishes.
My wife said to me time and time again to do cooking sometime.
But, I am always an eater, and don't try to cook.
However, I decided that washing dishes is my job, so, my wife is a "maker" and I am a "disposer" in our home.

Michelle, you have wounderful sons having dreams or goals
everyone each.
Man's lives not only study and education but also techniques and skills. You said that they don't like study, so they may noticed that living with some skill or technique
is suites for themselve. Isn't it a wonderfule thinking ?.
I think it's a grate idea for them on today. Please keep a warm eyes on them. You are succeeding raising sons,I think.

In fact, I can't talk such a proudly way, because I do not have any child. I do not have experience raising child. Did I tell you two that before ?.
So, in some meaning, I envy you two who have nice children.

Please keep telling about your sons and daughter in your daily life. " Being young" is a important value by itself.
Don't you two think so ?. I belive so.